Claim your unconditional self-worth and find the healthy, loving relationship you desire.

with Dr. Adia

In a group coaching program facilitated by a licensed clinical psychologist and couples therapist.

Schedule a call to learn more about this 10 week program.


Does this sound like you?

  • You're feeling exhausted by the emotional roller coaster of dating. You're ready to to just find your person.
  • You're feeling discouraged about whether there's any more good men out there and wonder if you need to give up your hope of finding love.
  • You're tired of repeating the same dating patterns such as settling for situationships and poor treatment, experiencing dating anxiety, and self-sabotaging when you find love.
  • You're tired of trying to win at the dating game while still being unsure about how to develop a true intimate relationship. 
  • You're ready to be prioritized and poured into and to truly feel loved.

The Black Women Claiming their Worth & Finding Love Program is specifically designed to support high achieving professional Black women overcome roadblocks to finding love by claiming their worth to attract and create the lasting loving relationship they desire.


"Ahhhhhhhh!!!!! I am so grateful!!! 

I am healed. I actually said it out loud to my therapist yesterday morning. I am so proud of myself. I am feeling so free. So unconditionally worthy. Proud as heck. And so utterly grateful for the transformation I have gone through with your support and care.

I manifested my partner, the biggest loving heart. I know this is my partner for life and that I am so worthy of being loved and deserving to be tested well. I actually love myself now, fully for all that I am and treat myself with such care it can only be given out tenfold. I’m literally bursting with radiating light and I know others feel it. It’s my true source I know I will never hold back or dim myself again. "

- Natasha, Former Unconditionally Worthy Course Member


Imagine a world where you experience deep love and connection… 


  • You have a partner who loves you fully as you are in your strength and power and who makes it safe for you to show your vulnerabilities. 
  • You have a partner who cares for you and protects you.
  • You fully own your needs and desires and confidently share them with your partner so that your needs are met. 
  • You know how to be open and vulnerable and build a healthy connected relationship.
  • You experience peace and joy in your life knowing that you are worthy and lovable.


That’s the life the BLACK WOMEN CLAIMING THEIR WORTH & FINDING LOVE PROGRAM will guide you to create.


Through this program you will:

  • ❤️‍🩹 Heal from past relationship trauma and release emotional baggage.

  • 👩🏾‍❤️‍👨🏾 Get clear on what you want in a partner and feel worthy of receiving it.

  • ⚠️ Identify and clear your internal roadblocks to relationships and eliminate patterns of self-sabotage.

  • 💃🏾 Feel confident in dating and have fun while doing it.

  • 🛠️ Have the tools to build a healthy long-lasting relationship.


Hi, I'm Dr. Adia 👋🏾


I'm not your average coach. I'm a licensed clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience, my TEDx talk has over 1.5 million views, and I'm a sought-after speaker and workshop facilitator.

On a normal day you might find me supporting clinical and coaching clients with a whole lotta honesty (sometimes too much! 😆) and compassion, dancing 💃🏾 in the living room with my 22 month old daughter 👶🏾, or snacking on extra dark chocolate 🍫. There’s just something about the sweet, bitter, and hit of caffeine (and dopamine) that I can’t resist (sounds kinda like life doesn’t it?). 

I’m loving my life right now; I have an wonderful handsome husband and we've built a healthy and supportive marriage, an amazing adorable daughter, authentic relationships with friends and family, and I’m using my 15+ years of experience as a clinical psychologist to help people embrace their unconditional self-worth and find love. Most importantly, I feel love and joy every day and I’m happy and at peace with myself.

But, life didn’t always feel this good to me…

  • I spent years in my 20s and 30s desperately wanting but struggling to find love.
  • For years, I repeated the same dating pattern of pursuing unavailable men, which just exacerbated my anxious attachment. 
  • Deep down I thought that if I met “the one” I would finally feel worthy. 

As a result, I dealt with a lot of dating anxiety, settled for what I could get in dating, and felt confused about what I needed to do differently to find love. 

Can you relate? 

The game changed when I fully claimed my worth and affirmed for myself that I was lovable. I started dating with authentic confidence. I screened and turned down men who were great on paper but weren't right for me.

Then 6 months later, I met my husband 🙌🏾 he asked me out quickly, took me on 3 incredible first dates and our relationship unfolded with ease. We were in a committed relationship within 3 months, got engaged 1.25 years later and got married 3 years after we met (that delay was because of the pandemic 🤪).

Our marriage isn't perfect but it's wonderful, supportive, joyful, and loving. I am truly living my happily ever after and I want to help you get to your happily ever after too.


The Black Women Claiming their Worth and Finding Love Program gives you step-by-step, expert guidance, and support on your journey finding love.

Before you dig into the juicy details of the program, let’s talk about who this program is for…

  • You’ve invested a lot of time, energy, and money into your career and have achieved very highly and now you're ready to invest in finding the love you want. 
  • You've accomplished many of the things you hoped for in your life (degrees, successful career, retirement savings) but you can't figure out how to find the partner you deeply desire.
  • You're willing to compassionately look at yourself and what you might be contributing to the dating and relationship challenges you've experienced.
  • You're a high achieving professional Black woman who's tired of proving yourself and explaining yourself and you're ready to heal and grow in a safe and supportive space.

If this resonates with you, you're in the right place.

The Black Women Claiming their Worth and Finding Love program will give you the tools, encouragement, and guidance so you can overcome dating roadblocks and finally find your partner.


Efficiency is my middle name and just so that I don’t waste any of your time I also want to be clear about who this course is NOT for. This course isn’t for you if…

  • You’re looking for a quick fix and aren’t willing to do the work of looking at yourself and how you may be contributing to your dating and relationship challenges. 
  • You're just looking for strategies on how to win at the dating game and "catch a man". 
  • You don't believe it's possible to find love.

Are you still with me? Now that we got that out of the way, I’m excited to introduce you to… 

Black Women Claiming their Worth & Finding Love Coaching Program


The *only* step-by-step 10 week group coaching program that teaches you specific strategies to help you fully embrace your unconditional self-worth, gives you the tools to find love within yourself and with a partner, and provides a healing community of like-minded Black women to support you on this journey. 

So that you can feel deep love for yourself and find and build a healthy loving relationship. 


The process: 

The process for this program is based on my signature framework for unconditional self-worth in addition to the wisdom and insight I have gained through my own journey to finding love, my 15 years of experience as a licensed clinical psychologist, work as a couples therapist, and my published writing on Black women's mental health and Black women in relationships. 

Free yourself 

  • Understand your self-worth story and how it has impacted you in dating and romantic relationships.

  • Forgive yourself for mistakes and failures you’ve had in relationships.

  • Let of emotional baggage from past relationships and clear the attachments you have to past partners and people who are not available to be in a relationship with you at this time.

Love yourself

  • Learn to soothe your relationship anxiety with compassion.

  • Fully accept yourself and love yourself the way you want to be loved.

  • Learn to set healthy boundaries.

Be Yourself

  • Identify and release toxic relationships.

  • Allow yourself to receive love from others.

  • Use your internal wisdom to guide you in dating and relationships.


Here's what's included...

10 weeks of group coaching with Dr. Adia

  • During the small group coaching calls you will get your questions answered, work through dating blocks and challenges, and receive clear guidance on your journey to love.

  • The theme for the weekly calls corresponds with the content covered in the module for that week.
  • The group coaching calls are a supportive and transformative space where you receive coaching from Dr. Adia, and connect with other group members. 

The Unconditionally Worthy Course.

  • An evidence-based curriculum based on Dr. Adia’s 15 years of clinical experience that guides you step-by-step in claiming your unconditional self-worth.

  • 7 powerful modules that guide you step-by-step through the exact mindset-shifts and practices that will help you embrace your unconditional self-worth.

  • Preparing for the Relationship You Want Masterclass- the secret to unlocking love within and attracting healthy relationship into your life

  • How to Set Healthy Boundaries Training - An exclusive training that helps you set boundaries so that you can truly live life on your own terms

1:1 Coaching Call with Dr. Adia

  • So that you can get your most personal questions answered and do a deep dive into understanding and problem solving around your dating challenges.

Here's what's covered in the Unconditionally Worthy Course


Module 1: The True Source of Your Worth

You will uncover that's keeping you from feeling worthy of love and connect to the true source of your worth. 


  • Write your self-worth story so that you can finally understand the source of your feelings of low self-worth. 
  • Dismantle the conditions you have placed on your self-worth so you are no longer stuck waiting to feel worthy. 
  • Connect with the true source of your worth so that you will stop looking for your worth in all the wrong places. 
  • Have a clear, exciting, and inspiring vision for what your life will look like when you know you are worthy. 

Module 2: From Self-Criticism to Self-Compassion

Self-criticism keeps us stuck in unhelpful patterns and can cause us to be critical in relationships. Self-compassion helps us to heal, grow, and show compassion to others.  

You will learn practical strategies to release your inner critic and begin practicing self-compassion, which will increase your self-trust and create a healthy foundation for loving relationships. 


  • Find freedom from the inner critic that has been holding you back. 
  • Experience the power of self-compassion through applying simple practices that you can use on a daily basis. 
  • Develop a healthy and supportive relationship with yourself so you can have a healthy relationship with a partner.

Module 3: Free Yourself from the Past through Self-Forgiveness

One of the biggest barriers to finding love is holding on to relationship trauma and baggage from the past. Forgiveness is a powerful way to release the burdens of the past and move forward freely. 


  • Experience the transformative power of self-forgiveness. 
  • Learn how to forgive yourself for anything, even things you feel too ashamed to tell anyone. 
  • Be free from burdens of your past so you can move forward freely.

Module 4: Learning to Love and Accept Yourself

Most of us feel we need to be different in some way in order to be worthy of love and acceptance and we are so focused on what we think is wrong with us that we overlook our strengths.

When we fully love and accept ourselves we attract people who love and accept us.


  • Let go of the belief that you should be different than you are. 
  • Embrace yourself fully through identifying your strengths and accepting your quirks. 
  • Identify personal self-love practices that you can engage in on an ongoing basis and return to whenever you need them.

Module 5: Learn to Receive Love and Cultivate Authentic Relationships

On your journey to finding love you may settle for toxic relationships that cause you to question yourself and can and block the love that others try to give us. You will dismantle these patterns in module 5.


  • Distinguish between healthy and toxic relationships. 
  • Release toxic relationships in your life. 
  • Build healthy, supportive, and authentic relationships. 
  • Learn to receive love and open yourself up to healthy, loving relationships.

Module 6: Let Your Internal Wisdom Guide You

As Black women, many of us have been taught not to trust ourselves, which leaves us uncertain when dating and navigating relationships. The truth is that you have a wealth of wisdom inside of you and when you tap into your inner wisdom you'll feel empowered to make bold decisions that will help you find love.


  • Tap into the power of your intuition through simple daily practices. 
  • Use your internal wisdom to guide your life decisions.
  • Identify your deeply held values through a powerful experiential exercise. 
  • Get clear on what your values look like in action and use them to be bold and courageous in your life. 

Module 7: Re-Write your Self-Worth Story

By the 7th module of the course, you will have experienced powerful transformations in how you see and relate to yourself and this final module is aimed at helping you capture this journey through writing and reflection. 

In this final module, we will cover how to keep your journey to love going by continuing to practice and apply the strategies and concepts you’ve learned to your life as you move beyond the program. 


  • Have a beautiful story of your self-worth journey. 
  • Know exactly how to continue using all that you have learned in the course through the rest of your life.
  • Acknowledge your connection to your unconditional self-worth.
  • Feel proud and inspired of how you have grown!

Are you ready to find the love you deeply desire?


Here’s what you need to know to know about finding love.

You may wonder if you are truly worthy of the love you desire and fear that something you've experienced in your past, a mistake you've made or trauma you've endured has made you unlovable. I've been there, and I know how painful it is to fear that you're not worthy of love.

The truth is that you are worthy and lovable and you just need to make some shifts to tap into the love and power that is within you and share that with the world so that you attract a partner who deeply values and appreciates you.

The Black Women Claiming their Worth & Finding Love Group Coaching Program uses evidence-based strategies to support you in making powerful changes in your life to help you truly embody your unconditional self-worth and find the partnership you desire.


I am worthy-period.

I am resting now, because I am worthy-period. I can rest without guilt.

Grace comes from the Unconditionally Worthy Course. When I realized that I am deserving of grace, my entire game changed. The more effective and kinder voices in my head stepped up to work with me and support me.

... I feel a peace that I have never felt in my entire life.

I trust myself to take care of myself beyond survival. This relieves me from living in constant fear, tightness, and overwhelm.

- Diyah, former Unconditionally Worthy Group Coaching Member

When you enroll in the

Black Women Claiming their Worth & Finding Love Program you’ll get:


  • 10 Weeks of Live Group Coaching Calls where you will receive support, guidance, and get your questions answered. 
  • The Unconditionally Worthy Course which guide you step-by-step in connecting with your unconditional self-worth. 
  • 1 individual coaching call with Dr. Adia so that you can overcome and specific challenges and stuck points. 

You’ll be given access to one new module at a time, so you have ample time to dive into the lessons and fully immerse yourself in the teaching from each module before moving on to the next. 

I do this to ensure that you do not feel overwhelmed on this journey. Also, I created this course thoughtfully and intentionally so that each module builds on the one that came before.


Total Value: $9497

I've also added these Bonuses to help you find love faster.


Bonus 1

Private WhatsApp Group with other Group Members

This private WhatsApp group is only open to group members and will be a place to share challenges and wins throughout the program.

What You’ll Get: 

  • Access to a private WhatsApp group where you can share your experiences of growth and progress as well as your challenges. 
  • Get questions answered and receive encouragement and support along your journey.
  • An opportunity to connect with other members of the course in-between Coaching Calls.
  • Answers and encouragement from Dr. Adia along the way.


Total Value: $197

Bonus 2

How to Set Healthy Boundaries Training

An exclusive training that helps you set boundaries so that you can truly live life on your own terms.


Here’s what you’ll get: 

  • 1-hour training that you can watch or listen to on demand. 
  • Actionable strategies to help you establish and maintain healthy boundaries. 
  • Learn what gets in the way of setting healthy boundaries and how to overcome these obstacles.

Total Value: $297


Bonus 3

Preparing for the Relationship You Want Workshop 

This workshop is packed with wisdom from my personal experiences with dating and my expertise from doing couples therapy and the advanced training I have received in couples therapy. You do not want to miss out on this!


Here’s what you’ll get: 

  • 1-hour workshop that you can watch or listen to on demand. 

  • 7 actionable strategies to prepare you for the relationship you want or grow as a partner if you are already in a relationship. 

  • Learn what gets in the way of healthy dating and relationships how to overcome these obstacles. 


Total Value: $297

Bonus 4

7 Guided Meditations

I created a guided meditation for each module to help you to deepen your connection with your unconditional self-worth.

What You’ll Get: 

  • 7 guided meditations that you can download onto your phone or other device and listen to as often as you would like.
  • These meditations will help you connect more deeply to the ideas and practices in each lesson. 
  • Meditations that you can continue to use after the course is over.

Total Value: $97

Bonus 5

Live Q&A with Adia's Husband

Get a man's perspective on dating and relationships.


What You’ll Get: 

  • The opportunity to ask Adia's husband questions on his perspectives on dating.
  • Insights on how men think about dating. 
  • Insights on dating mistakes you may be unknowingly make.


Total Value: $297

Total Value of the Program + Bonuses $10,682


Your investment in the program:

Pay in Full - $4997 (Save $503)


12 Payments of - $467

There is also funding available through Eaze Consulting. If you qualify, your payments could be as low as $270/month.


So why does this program work, when nothing else has? 


No other program…. 

  • Is specifically focuses on the unique challenges high achieving professional Black women experience when dating and finding love.

  • Teaches research-backed strategies that will transform the way you see yourself and your life. 

  • Supports you in building a healthy relationship with yourself and prepares you to actually build a lasting, healthy, loving relationship.

  • Provides support and guidance from a licensed clinical psychologist who is also a couples therapist with over a decade of experience.

Ready to gain insights in what's been holding you back from finding love?


The Guarantee


When you sign up, you’ll be backed by a risk-free 30-day guarantee.

The Black Women Claiming their Worth & Finding Love Program provides a step-by-step guide that will transform your life by helping you to connect deeply to your unconditional self-worth and move forward on your journey to finding love. Going on this journey will take COMMITMENT from you to learn, grow, and keep showing up for yourself. If you do this, I KNOW the investment you make in this program won’t compare to the incredible benefits you experience once you are connected to your unconditional self-worth and find the love you desire.

You are worthy of this investment in yourself AND I want to give you 30 days to try this program out to make sure it is a great fit for you. You will be able to go through the first 3 modules before the trial period ends.

If you have actively engaged in the program up to that point and don't feel it has helped you begin connecting to your unconditional self-worth, you can request a refund. I'll just ask that you show you've made a good faith effort to engage in the program and attend coaching calls up until that point.

 Full details here


I don’t have to prove or earn my worth.  I am intrinsically worthy.

"For so long I had been on this rat wheel trying to prove to others that I am worthy of their friendship, love, attention, energy and care. 

Working through the modules and meeting weekly with Dr. Gooden and the group was so eye opening. 

I learned that I don’t have to prove or earn my worth.  I am intrinsically worthy.   

My biggest transformation is a true love and compassion for the person I am today. I no longer need to be afraid of being true to myself.

Taking the course have been a true blessing, an awakening, a key to unlocking a freedom, a guide to creating my best self now!"

 -  Deanna K.

What Happens When Schedule a Breakthrough Call

Step 1: Schedule a Breakthrough Call with Dr. Adia

Click the button below to schedule a call at a time that works for you. This call with will help you pinpoint the barriers that have kept you from finding and maintaining healthy loving relationships and provide you with a clear roadmap for what you need to do to find the love you want.

Step 2: Determine if the Program is Right for You

During the call Dr. Adia will share about how the Black Women Claiming their Worth and Finding Love can help you to address your specific challenges and invite you to consider joining the group if it's the right fit for you.

Step 3: Enroll in the Black Women Claiming their Worth and Finding Love Group Coaching

If we agree on the breakthrough call that the Black Women Claiming their Worth & Finding Love group coaching program will be a good fit for you, Dr. Adia will review the payment plan options, and you will be provided with the link to enroll in the program and join the upcoming cohort.


"Adia and I have been friends since freshman year of college. She has always been considerate, thoughtful, outspoken and refreshingly honest. Sometimes I think it physically pains her to not tell her full truth. Whenever I need support or advice, she is always there to listen with an objectively critical and/or empathetically caring ear."

 -  Issa Rae, Actress, Director, Producer


I can’t wait for you to experience how wonderful life is when you fully claim your worth and find love.


I am passionate about guiding you on this journey to claim your worth and find love because as Black women we receive SO many messages that we are not worthy and lovable as we are and that's just not true.

I know what it feels like to be anxious, exhausted, and lonely and I don’t want you to be stuck in that place.

I believe that when you take the time to truly love, accept and pour into yourself, you'll build authentic confidence, which will attract potential partners, and you'll tap into your inner wisdom, which will guide you to discern who is right for you.

I would love to have the honor of being your guide on this journey to claim your worth and find love and even if you decide not to take this program, know that I still believe you are unconditionally worthy of love.

Whatever path you choose to take, I hope it leads you to the life of your dreams and a deep knowing that you are unconditionally worthy.

With love, 

Dr. Adia 

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